Monthly Archives: November 2009

Music Monday: Benefit Honoring Neil Young features Dave Matthews

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MusiCares named Neil Young as their 2010 Person of the Year and will be holding a tribute in January to the singer.  According to the DMB official website:

On January 29, 2010, Dave Matthews will join a host of talented artists including Jackson Browne, Crosby, Stills & Nash, Sheryl Crow, Josh Groban, Emmylou Harris, Norah Jones, K.D. Lang, John Mellencamp, Ozomatli, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Wilco and others who will come together for a MusiCares benefit to honor Neil Young as MusiCares® 2010 Person of the Year. Neil Young will be honored at a special event in Los Angeles which will celebrate his exceptional artistic achievements and philanthropic work. Proceeds from the annual MusiCares Person of the Year tribute — now in its 20th year — provide essential support for MusiCares, which ensures that members of the music community have a place to turn in times of financial, medical and personal need. For more information on the work of MusiCares and the 20th Anniversary Tribute Benefit, visit MusiCares.com.

It is events like these that make me wish I lived in L.A. *sigh* Hopefully it will be televised.

Apple Discriminating Against Smokers? Really?

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Three different Mac users have claimed that Apple voided their AppleCare Protection Plans due to second-hand smoke.  According to Ruth, one of the Apple customers who wrote into the Consumerist:

I bought an iMac for my son (for school) along with the extended Applecare warranty. A month ago, it quit working. My son took it to the authorized Mac service center. The “tech” informed him it would be ready in 48-72 hours. Five days go by and he’s heard nothing, so I called. They informed me that his computer can’t be worked on because it’s contaminated.

When I asked for an explanation, she said he’s a smoker and it’s contaminated with cigarette smoke which they consider a bio-hazard! I checked my Applecare warranty and it says nothing about not honoring warranties if the owner is a smoker. The Applecare representative said they defer to the technician and my son’s computer cannot be fixed at any Apple Service Center due to being listed a bio-hazard.

This computer cost approx. $3,000, with the extended warranty. I’m all for destroying cigarettes and putting big tobacco out of business (yes, I’m a reformed smoker), but to label a computer a biohazard because one is a smoker is going a bit too far in regulating who can have the warranty they purchased honored. Shouldn’t there be some disclaimer stating that they won’t honor warranties from smokers?

Ruth appealed her case to Steve Jobs’s office, which also declined to repair the iMac. In another letter, she wrote:

Dena [from Jobs' office] did advise me that nicotine is on OSHA’s list of hazardous substances and Apple would not require an employee to repair anything deemed hazardous to their health. However, OSHA also lists calcium carbonate (found in calcium tablets), isopropyl alcohol (used to clean wounds), chlorine (used in swimming pools), hydrogen peroxide (also used to clean wounds), sucrose (a sugar), talc (as in powder), etc… as hazardous substances.

I get it. I understand where Apple is coming from.  Smoking is bad for you. I’m sure smoking around your computer can’t be good for it either.  But for Apple to not honor the AppleCare Protection Plan that people paid good money for is just WRONG. I have a MacBook that I got in 2007.  I purchased the Protection Plan for an additional $250.  Thank goodness I did, since my hard drive broke in August and had to be replaced.  This makes me wonder if my computer has damage like that.  Harry smoked around my computer from when I got it in 2007 until he passed away in January 2009.  That’s 2 years of smoke damage.  Had they pulled this crap with me, I don’t know what I would have done.

Apple has remained mum on the subject, not releasing a statement as of yet.  As a company known for its customer service, I would hope that they will do the right thing and honor any repair with a plan purchased up until this “new exception” came up and make it effective starting now.  At least give people a chance to kick the habit!

HOW TO: Use Refollow to Manage Your Followers on Twitter

There are a lot of different third-party applications that claim to make your Twitter experience even better.  One has certainly come in more handy than others for me, and that is Refollow.  I have found with the more followers I get on Twitter, it becomes a lot more tedious to keep up.  Once I discovered this site, it was that much easier. Here I will walk you through, step-by-step, how I manage my followers using Refollow:

1. Log on to Refollow:

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This can be done either using Twitter OAuth or by inputting your Twitter username and password. The reason you need to login is that Refollow needs to access your followers, your friends and the followers of people you follow.

2. Load your followers and friends: When you first login, the first thing to happen is an automatic load of 100 of your friends (people you are following) and 100 of your followers. This will take a few seconds. If you want to load more, you can click the “more” or “all” options in the “Show me” box. Each load of 100 costs 1 API call.  You only get 150 Twitter API an hour, so if you have a lot of followers, I would suggest closing any other programs that will use the API (such as TweetDeck or HootSuite).  If you move your mouse over one of the pictures in the grid, a popup will show you some info about that user. At the top left of that popup is a little icon that let’s you know your relationship (a pink bar means you’re following them, a yellow bar means they are following you, and both bars mean you are following each other. A red “X” through the pink bar means you previously followed them, but not anymore).

3. Get familiar with the filters: While your followers and friends are loading, look at the top of your screen.  You will see this:

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These filters are how you manage your followers.  As you can see, there are several filters for you use: Following me, Not Following Me, I’m Following, I’m not Following, Previously Followed, Never Followed, Locked, Not Locked, With Picture, Without Picture, Tweeting in the last X days, No Tweets in the last X days.  There are SOOO many different combinations that you can use.  For instance, if I wanted to see who I was following that wasn’t following me who hasn’t tweeted in 3 days, I can do that! Or I can see, 100 tweeps at a time, users who are following me that I’m not following back.  With the press of a button, I can follow all of them, instead of going through page by page on the web.  There are also Search boxes that can be used in conjunction with the filters.  If I wanted to search for followers from Long Island, NY who are following me, who have been active in the past 2 days, this too is possible.

4. Lock Important Users: Before I do anything, I use the “Lock” feature to lock celebrities and other tweeps that don’t follow me so that they are not accidentally unfollowed.  I do this by loading all of those I am following and then sorting the users by follow count (celebrities normally have very high follow counts). Now, I see, in pages of 100, all of the tweeps I follow that aren’t following me back.  Using the “Select Page” button, I select all 100 people on the page and then click the “Lock” button.  After a user is locked, a little icon will show on the bottom right of their avatar on Refollow.  These users will never be refollowed, until you unlock them.  Once all important users are locked, I move onto the next step.

5. Unfollow Users that are not following you: I try not to do this often, because normally, there is a reason that I follow a person in the first place.  However, due to Twitter’s follow limits, sometimes I need to clean out those I’m following to make room for new followers.  Once my “following” list is loaded, I use these filters: I’m following, Not following me.  Most of those that come up will be locked from the previous step.  Those that are not locked can be unfollowed, in lots of 100, with the press of the “Unfollow” button. If I want to only unfollow users who have been inactive for a certain number of days, I use that filter as well.

6. Follow Users that are following you: Once I have cleaned out people not following me, I should now have room to follow all of those users that are following me that I may not be following.  I make sure all (or as many as possible) of my followers are loaded.  I then check off “Following Me” and “I’m not Following”.  This will load anyone who I’m not following.  To select the entire page, I click “Select Page” and click “Follow”.

7. Find New People:

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Another great thing about Refollow is the ability to view and follow, people that are followed by friends.  Normally, if someone I admire is following someone, then most likely, I will enjoy their tweets as well.  Using the “Users Who are Followed By” box, I type in a user name. Refollow then loads that person’s friends, 100 per page.  The process is the same as with your own followers. I use the filters again to see who they follow that I’m not following.

These steps should get you started using Refollow.  Hopefully, the site makes your Twitter experience that much better, as it has for me.  Since discovering the site, I spend less time refollowing people and actually interacting with them, and that’s really what Twitter is all about.

Dave Matthews Band Coming to a Theater Near You in 3D!

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When I first heard about this, I thought, it couldn’t be true.  They make concert movies for Miley Cyrus, the Jonas Brothers and Michael Jackson.  Not Dave Matthews Band.  But it’s real! And includes Ben Harper, who I love too!! Check out the trailer:

From the DMB official website:

This December, the first in a series of 3D concert events will debut with the digital cinema 3D release of “LARGER THAN LIFE…IN 3D” featuring Dave Matthews Band, Ben Harper and Relentless7 and Gogol Bordello. The Larger Than Life concert event featuring DMB will screen nationwide, one week only December 11-17th. Shot in Digital 3D, the format essentially brings viewers onstage, giving them a stunning 360? view of each live performance. Filmed by inconcert3d at critically acclaimed music festivals this summer, the performances include DMB at the 2009 Austin City Limits Music Festival, Ben Harper and Relentless7 at the Mile High Music Festival in Denver, and Gypsy punk band Gogol Bordello at All Points West Music & Arts Festival in New Jersey.

I’ve already demanded it for Long Island.  It says it is playing near me, but when I went to the movie site, it wasn’t showing up.  It might be too early.  Stay tuned for a review!

10 Things I am Thankful for this Year.

Picture 6Although I am in the wake of the worst year of my life this Thanksgiving, I still have a lot of things to be thankful for:

  1. My family. My parents are on the other side of the country but I talk to my Mom more now then I did when she lived a few miles away.
  2. Gracie. The little kitty is my best buddy and has turned me into a morning person.  Well, almost.
  3. Emily. She is the spitting image of her father, down to his mannerisms and I still get to see her every week.
  4. Social Media. I found a new calling this year and it was in the form of tweets.
  5. My friends. You stuck by me through everything. Thank you.
  6. My Twitter followers. That’s right, all 16,000+ of you rock. Each and every one of you.
  7. The Internet. Seriously.  It has changed my life.  I actually met Harry on MySpace 4 years ago today.
  8. Food in my cabinets.  Even though I’m broke and I eat a lot of mac and cheese, it’s still food.
  9. Clothes in my closet. Yes, they are all 2 sizes too tight.  But that’s not the clothes’ fault.  It’s mine for eating so many Oreos.
  10. My memories of Harry. I got to spend the last 3 years & 2 months of his life with him and I will never forget the good times we spent together.

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Happy Thanksgiving everyone! What are you thankful for?


Wordless Wednesday: Thanksgiving Edition

It's Official: I'm Totally Fat…and Guess What? It's OK.

kate mossIs Kate Moss kidding? Somebody needs to go shove some cheeseburgers down the skinny bitch’s throat.  I bet she’d like them.  I saw this quote and it just pissed me off.  I went to the doctor last week and was weighed for the first time in a while. I was appalled. I will not even post the number here because it is just embarrassing. I always said I would never let myself get this heavy and I did. I have yo-yoed with my weight all my life.  Well, more on the fat side most of the time with a titch of skinny when I was in my young twenties.  There was a time when I used to shop at Abercrombie Kids and Gap Kids for clothes. I saved money and the clothes fit. It was so long ago, I hardly remember how it feels.  Ten years later, I now shop for plus-sizes.

I can’t take any of those diet pills (that wouldn’t even be good for me anyway) because I’m on Coumadin for the blood clot I had. It is hard to exercise because I have been in two car accidents that have left me with 3 herniated discs in my neck and 2 in my lower back.  Most of the time, I’m in pain, and any exercise just hurts even more.

I’m not trying to make excuses as to why I’m fat.  It’s completely my fault. I like fattening foods, like Oreos and ice cream.  Over the years, I have done every diet from Weight Watchers to Jenny Craig to Atkins to South Beach. In order to lose weight, I need to want to, and I guess, I just don’t right now.  My heart is broken.  I thought I would spend my life with Harry.  Now I am fine if I spend it alone…eating Oreos, in plus-size clothing. Kiss my fat ass, Kate Moss.

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